Nearly every pursuit in life has some portion that sucks. This is especially true for jobs.
It may be a short “phase” at the beginning caused by your lack of knowledge or experience. “I have no idea what I’m doing, so every day is torture! I can’t wait until I get the hang of this new job.”
It may be a valuable sacrifice required to fully embrace the benefits of a new opportunity. “The position is exactly what I’m looking for. The only problem is the 90-minute commute…each way.”
Maybe there’s 1% you don’t like that comes along with 99% you love. “This company is amazing! I wish the people I work with would realize it.”
What if the suck is more than 1%?
What if it’s 30% of the experience? 80% of the experience?
The ratio of suck versus awesome determines happiness. As the suck goes up, happiness goes down.
Humans are more sensitive to the suck than the awesome. We thrive on the negative. Bad news travels fastest. We assume and discount good news, so we don’t put much effort into spreading it…even to ourselves.
Measuring the suck is arbitrary and subjective. Something that sucked only 1% last week may suck 95% today when that 90-minute commute causes you to miss your daughter’s award ceremony.
Are you considering a job change? Just thinking about it means you’ve decided that the suck ratio is getting too high in your current job. So, a new opportunity or a new direction seems like a good idea.
The new opportunities have their own suck, whether you choose to see it or not. Sure, they have things you appreciate, but it’s easy to overvalue the good stuff and minimize the parts that suck.
It’s human nature to see only the “good” stuff that’s happening over there…and see only the things that suck, happening here.
The grass usually isn’t greener over there (wherever “there” is). It’s usually just another shade of green that looks greener today. The suck ratio is in play over there just as much as it is where you’re standing.
Does this mean we should never change jobs or career paths? Hardly. But, it’s important to keep some things in mind:
- Every job has a suck ratio.
- It’ll take a lot longer than you think to get good at your new job. Even longer before you become great at it. Until then, it’s suck ratio will be higher than you like.
- It’s hard to see the suck from the outside. Suck only shows itself once you’re on the inside when it’s too late.
- Don’t measure the suck every day. Suck measures are only accurate over the long-term.
It’s easy to find something that sucks today if we look hard enough. It’s just as easy to find something that’s awesome.
The effort we put into the search for suck or awesome dictates the one we find the most. That’s true for jobs, too.