Leadership – Grandpa Bob Encouraging Leadership

421 Posts Later, I’m Still Learning

From January 2013 to October 2026, I published 421 posts covering approximately 120 different topics and themes…and around 300,000 words.

That’s a lot of thinking out loud.

What Keeps Coming Up?

Leadership, courage, growth, perspective, learning, and service appeared more frequently than almost anything else.

Family, faith, gratitude, forgiveness, relationships, humility, and the importance of making intentional choices about how we spend our time appeared repeatedly as well.

What stands out:

-People deserve encouragement.

-Leadership is an opportunity to serve.

-We grow through experience, including experiences that don’t turn out as planned.

-Our relationships deserve our attention.

-Our time is valuable, and we should choose carefully how we use it.

In 2014, I wrote Your Employees Don’t Work for You, arguing that managers exist to help their employees succeed. Eleven years later, I was exploring coaching, creating room for failure, and building organizational environments where people can grow.

My underlying conviction hasn’t changed. My understanding of how to put it into practice has expanded.

I noticed a similar evolution in my posts about failure.

Initially, I emphasized perseverance, overcoming obstacles, and personal accountability. Later, I began exploring failure as an experiment that could produce valuable learning. More recently, I’ve written about helping others feel comfortable taking risks and learning from unsuccessful attempts.

In 2014, I wrote Start Anywhere!, encouraging people to begin rather than spending endless time preparing. In 2026, I wrote Solving the Right Problem, questioning our tendency to become more efficient at things we might be better off eliminating.

In 2015, I wrote The Truth About Grudges, exploring the burden we carry when we hold on to resentment. In September 2026, Selfish Forgiveness revisited essentially the same idea from a different perspective.

The Stories Behind the Ideas

A rewarding part of this review exercise was rediscovering stories.

My dad getting ready for family camping trips. Experiences from my childhood in Southern California. People I’ve worked with, learned from, and occasionally struggled with.

Lessons from starting, buying, operating, and selling businesses.

My daughters growing up, and now watching my grandkids experience the world from their perspective.

Stories about faith, friendship, adventure, disappointment, forgiveness, and ordinary moments that have become more meaningful with time.

In a recent post, The Things We Forget to Remember, I reflected on how details of our parents’ and grandparents’ everyday lives disappear. We remember important events but lose the ordinary details that made them who they were.

Without realizing it, I’ve preserved lots of those details in these posts.

Something happens. It catches my attention. I write about it. Years later, I can revisit that experience, relive a memory, and occasionally discover something new in a story I thought I already understood.

So, What About the Next Ten Years?

I’ve spent most of my adult life helping organizations solve problems, develop people, improve performance, and prepare for the future. I’ve enjoyed that work tremendously.

But many of the things I find most rewarding extend well beyond my professional responsibilities.

Learning something new. Helping someone see an opportunity they hadn’t considered. Encouraging someone who’s struggling. Exploring an interesting idea. Sharing an experience that might help another person.

These activities have been part of my life for decades, regardless of where I happened to be working.

I’d especially like to help people discover the freedom that comes from discipline. Saving early, taking care of our health, and staying focused on our goals despite competing distractions will provide greater freedom and more choices down the road.

Life is a series of marathons and sprints. We rarely know which one we’re running at the time. Discipline prepares us for both, giving us the endurance to stay the course and the ability to make the most of opportunities when they arise.

Any New Projects?

I have a bunch of things underway.

For the past two years, I’ve been working on a book and companion workbook that bring together my faith and experiences in leadership. I explore connections between Scripture, the lives of the saints, and the fundamental principles of good leadership. Both are nearly complete.

I launched the Grandpa Bob Encouraging Leadership podcast earlier this year. I’ve published ten episodes so far. It’s a collection of stories and lessons from life and leadership, intended for my grandkids and anyone else who might find them helpful. I’ve let other commitments and shiny objects distract me from it, but I’m looking forward to getting back to recording.

There are trails to clear and sheds to build, campsites to finish, concrete to pour, and countless unnecessary opportunities to put my tractor and mini-excavator to work around our property.

And I’ve got a crew of grandkids I plan to keep involved in as many of these projects as possible. They’ll learn a ton, and we’ll enjoy making memories together.

I hope some of the days working alongside Grandpa will become stories they’ll tell.

Photo by Dennis Guten on Unsplash.

Why a photo of Mount Rushmore?

I’ve traveled to lots of countries and nearly every state, but somehow, I’ve never made it to Mount Rushmore.

We’ve been talking about making that road trip since at least 2010. I thought we’d finally make it in 2013, but other commitments and adventures jumped ahead of it.

Sixteen years later, Mount Rushmore is back on the short list.

I think it’s waited long enough.

What Will We Do With All This AI Productivity?

An employee uses ChatGPT to draft a proposal and sends it to a colleague. The colleague feeds it into their ChatGPT for an evaluation and sends back the feedback. The first employee asks ChatGPT to incorporate it and returns the revision.

A few rounds later, everyone agrees the work is finished. Success. Two people produced a proposal in a fraction of the usual time.

Notice that nobody asked the other person a question. They only exchanged answers.

Did they actually collaborate? Did they challenge each other’s thinking or understand the problem any better? Or did they trade AI-generated work until both systems agreed it was good enough?

I see this pattern a lot.

For decades, organizations have rewarded productivity. More output, less waste, less time. AI is very good at exactly that. Work that took hours now takes minutes.

The obvious move is to do the same work with fewer people. The savings are immediate and measurable, and companies do have to survive.

The alternative is to point the reclaimed time at the business itself. Imagine a team that uses its saved hours to interview ten customers a month and discovers a need no one had on the roadmap. Or a manager who replaces weekly status reports with a weekly session to brainstorm new solutions to problems we didn’t have time to explore in the past.

That all sounds great, but it’s harder than assigning tasks and measuring their completion.

It’s unstructured. It demands curiosity, judgment, and a willingness to take risks. It runs on conversations rather than statuses and finished assignments. It doesn’t produce neat deliverables or impressive slides.

We’ve become far more comfortable measuring completed work than evaluating the benefits of creative thinking.

And employees have adapted. Many have spent years accepting assignments, completing them, and moving on to the next task. They learned to wait for direction rather than offering opinions or challenging assumptions.

We’ve conditioned people to deliver answers. Now we need them to start asking questions.

That’s a challenge for managers and employees alike. Leaders have to create room for independent thinking, and employees have to rekindle their curiosity and the confidence to use it.

AI can serve either goal. It can write the proposal faster, or it can help us test assumptions and explore ideas. The first makes the business we have more efficient. The second builds a better one.

Ask your team what question they’d explore with five extra hours. Their initial reaction will tell you something about your culture. But their answers might tell you something important about your future.

Doing what we’ve always done more efficiently is now the price of admission. Discovering what we should be doing next is the real prize.

And getting there before our competitors do is how we win it.

Photo by Evgeni Tcherkasski on Unsplash

Embracing FUB to Avoid FUBAR

Most of us know FUBAR as the old military acronym for something that has gone terribly wrong (f’d up beyond all recognition). There’s another FUB that can help companies avoid getting there.

Fear. Understand. Build.

Fear

Fear gets a bad rap in business. Leaders are supposed to be confident, decisive, and optimistic about the future. But fear can be useful. A new competitor appears. Technology changes what customers expect. An industry that seemed stable suddenly isn’t. AI makes something possible that would have sounded ridiculous three years ago. If that makes you a little afraid, good, that means you’re paying attention.

The problem isn’t fear. It’s what we do next.

Companies rarely respond to disruption by doing nothing. They form committees, hire consultants, buy software, launch pilots, and look for ways to respond. Activity feels like progress.

AI is a great example of this. Ask companies what they’re doing with it, and many will describe activities. You’ll hear that developers are writing code faster, reports are getting better, repetitive work is disappearing, and some SaaS applications are now built internally. Then someone shows the board a slide that says 47 AI use cases are underway, and everybody feels a little better.

The company is doing something.

Activity helps us learn, but it becomes dangerous when we mistake it for understanding. A company can get very good at using AI to improve its existing operating model without asking whether that model is the one it will need.

Understand

It’s reasonable to ask: What can we do with AI?

But that turns our attention inward to the easier questions. How can we automate more work? Reduce process costs? Increase efficiency?

The harder question is: How will AI change the things that determine whether our business succeeds in the future?

Understanding starts with the questions every business has always had to answer. AI adds new urgency and new possibilities, but the customer should still be at the center:

Do we know what customers value most?

Why do customers choose us today?

What would make them leave tomorrow?

What are they tolerating because they don’t have a better alternative?

Where are we making life harder for customers than it needs to be?

What will future customers expect that seems optional or trivial today?

What could a competitor offer that makes our product look expensive, slow, or obsolete?

These questions bring the customer back to the center. They force us to look beyond internal efficiency and understand what customers value, where they experience friction, how their expectations are changing, and what could cause them to choose someone else.

That’s the perspective we need before deciding what to build.

AI can improve how we operate, but its bigger impact will be on customer expectations and competitive possibilities.

While one company uses AI to polish yesterday’s machine, another is building the machine that replaces it.

Build

Building takes money, people, time, and a willingness to be wrong. That last one is the hardest.

The present always has the advantage. It has customers, revenue, problems, and deadlines. Established organizations are built around these realities. Budgets back known priorities, managers are rewarded for predictable execution, and mistakes draw more criticism than the opportunities nobody pursued.

The future arrives differently. It shows up as ideas competing for people, money, and attention against something already producing results. The same systems that run today’s business can quietly squeeze the life out of what comes next.

Steve Jobs had a blunt rule about this: “If you don’t cannibalize yourself, someone else will.” Cannibalizing yourself requires taking resources from something that works today and putting them behind something that might replace it tomorrow.

That takes deliberate leadership. Good leaders create room to build. They give people permission to work on problems whose answers aren’t already known. They fund small bets before a traditional business case can prove they’ll work and accept that some ideas will fail along the way. When something starts working, they move people, money, and attention behind it.

None of this requires betting the company. Build something small, put it in front of someone, learn, adjust, and build again. Small bets create information, information improves understanding, and better understanding supports larger bets.

It’s the leader’s job to protect some capacity for tomorrow from the demands of today.

Organizations follow the questions their leaders ask. Celebrate the number of AI use cases and you’ll get more of them. Reward cost savings and you’ll get more efficiency. Both have value, but adaptation requires a lot more.

Leaders should reward learning, customer insight, and the willingness to pursue an idea before everyone agrees it’s obvious.

The real advantage comes from creating an organization that can move into uncertainty, learn quickly, and change direction as the evidence develops.

Then someone has to build.

Because while we’re debating what the future might bring, someone else is creating it.

Fear. Understand. Build.

Embrace a little FUB. It might keep you from becoming totally FUBAR.

Hat tip to Atlas Berry, whose FUB framing started me thinking about how businesses respond to disruption.

Photo by Urban Gyllström on Unsplash – the customer gets the final vote on whether it’s good.

Selfish Forgiveness

Our grudges come with an opportunity cost.

They sit at the top of our minds where other, more valuable thoughts should live.

Someone we love. Something we’re creating. A problem worth solving. Something we’re grateful for.

Forgiveness lets the grudge go without forgetting what happened or the lessons we learned.

We just stop giving the grudge space we’d rather use for something better.

Maybe that’s selfish forgiveness.

And I’m okay with that.

h/t – Paul Graham’s 2010 essay, “The Top Idea in Your Mind,” and Tim Ferriss for bringing it back to my attention this week.

Photo by Peter Luo on Unsplash

Make the Right Choices Easier

A team of rowers in a boat, with oars extended, competing on a body of water.

Companies have goals. Employees have goals.

Strong leaders find ways to align the two, so the right behaviors are worth choosing.

That alignment can come through compensation, recognition, autonomy, opportunity, trust, or simply making sure people aren’t punished for doing what the organization says it values.

When incentives point one way and stated goals point another, people usually follow the incentives.

The strongest systems make it easiest for people to advance their own interests while also advancing the organization’s.

Photo by David Trinks on Unsplash – Different roles. Shared direction.

When Uncertainty Loses Its Vote

A friend posted a short video this week asking about the “when” of things. When do you act? When do you wait? When do you pivot?

I just turned 60, so that probably changed how I heard his questions.

I can’t think of many important decisions where I thought, I’m completely ready for this. And I’m increasingly convinced we have readiness backward.

It’s easy to imagine that first we’ll prepare, then gain confidence, our uncertainty will disappear, and finally we’ll be ready to take action.

Life doesn’t always work that way.

Sometimes, the only way to gain confidence in something is to do it. The doing becomes part of the preparation. It creates clarity we can’t get from thinking alone.

Does that mean we should always move first and prepare later?

Nothing is that simple.

Preparation and thinking are important. But past a certain point, more analysis is just another excuse for waiting.

The harder part of these “when” questions may be determining our level of commitment.

Being ready isn’t the same as being casually willing to try. It means I’ve prepared as well as I reasonably can, accepted that I may still be uncomfortable, and decided that uncertainty no longer gets the deciding vote.

But if I’m not willing to bring the commitment required to see something through, I shouldn’t start.

Turning 60 is a reminder that our time is finite, whether we think much about it or not. Every decision to wait is also a decision about how we’ll spend that precious time.

I have no idea what the next decade will bring. The best parts of my first six were mostly unpredictable.

There’ll be more opportunities, more decisions, more things worth building. Also, more uncertainty, doubt, and hesitation.

Wisdom isn’t knowing exactly what to do, or precisely when to do it.

It’s recognizing when we’ve thought enough, prepared enough, listened enough, prayed enough, and waited enough.

Then committing to move.

Photo by Gennady Zakharin on Unsplash – Sometimes we have to start moving before the path makes sense.

Stop Expecting Less…

From yourself. Expect to learn, grow, contribute, follow through, and occasionally surprise yourself.

From your relationships. Cultivate depth, honesty, presence, and care. Treasure the people who know you well, but don’t let your full life become a closed circle.

From your curiosity. Keep asking questions. Keep learning things you don’t understand. Stay willing to be a beginner.

From your body. Expect your body to do what it reasonably can, but don’t be afraid to push against its limits. Protect your strength, mobility, endurance, and ability to do things for yourself.

From your work. The things you choose to work on should be useful, meaningful, interesting, and worth doing well.

From your courage. Admit when you’re wrong, try things you might fail at, and choose the less comfortable path when it’s the right one.

From your attention. Decide what deserves your attention instead of surrendering it to whatever is loudest, newest, or easiest.

From your ability to contribute. Always look for ways to be useful. Teach, encourage, help, listen, solve a problem, share what you know, give your time, or carry part of the load.

From what’s still ahead. Don’t assume the most interesting parts of life have already happened. Leave room for new work, new friendships, new places, new ideas, and versions of yourself you haven’t met yet.

From your standards. Don’t let convenience or laziness redefine what you consider good enough, especially in the areas you care about most.

From your sense of wonder. Keep noticing beauty, craftsmanship, nature, music, ideas, people. Familiarity can make remarkable things seem ordinary if you let it.

From your sense of possibility. Don’t become too quick to decide what can’t happen, what won’t work, or what’s no longer for you. Some doors close. Others are easy to overlook because you’ve stopped checking them.

From the life you have now. Don’t wait for everything to be settled before you fully engage with your life. There will always be another problem to solve. Problems aren’t interruptions to the life you’re trying to get to. They’re part of the life you’re living.

Photo by Austin Ramsey on Unsplash – With every revolution, something new is revealed.

What Would Make This Fail?

Years ago, I led a company with a large team in India.

Our conference calls included some exceptionally smart technologists and business leaders.

But most of them rarely spoke.

Usually, the most senior person on their side did the talking. Everyone else listened.

I’d stop and ask.

“What do you think?”

“Are we missing something?”

“Does anyone see this differently?”

Silence.

Then I got to know them.

I visited them in person. We spent time together outside the formal meetings.

They had strong opinions.

They saw risks we hadn’t discussed. They questioned decisions we’d made. Sometimes they were frustrated with the direction we’d chosen.

They just hadn’t said so when we were making the decisions.

I assumed some of this was cultural. Age, seniority, and respect for authority.

But I’ve seen the same pattern plenty of times in American organizations too. Smart people with something to say staying quiet for all kinds of reasons.

I eventually realized I had something to learn.

Telling people they’re free to speak isn’t the same as creating a setting where they will.

Consider the question, “Does anyone disagree?”

To answer yes, someone has to challenge the idea already sitting on the table. And depending on who put it there, they may feel like they’re challenging that person too.

Try another question.

What would make this fail?

Now disagreement is part of the assignment.

Find the weakness. Challenge an assumption. Spot the risk.

We aren’t deciding who’s right. We’re trying to make the plan better.

That’s a different conversation.

The next time I was on a call with that same team, I didn’t ask if they disagreed. I asked what would make the plan fail.

Someone I’d rarely heard speak chimed in.

Then someone else did.

A small shift in the question opened the conversation to ideas and perspectives we hadn’t heard before.

Leaders should design for agency.

Ask what would make the plan fail six months from now.

Ask for the strongest argument against your own idea.

Then listen, especially when the answers are uncomfortable.

People learn quickly if you really value their input.

The goal is better thinking and a stronger plan. That requires the leader to make disagreement part of the work.

Don’t just give people permission to think independently.

Give them an assignment that requires it.

Start with a question.

What would make this fail?

Photo by Patrick Schneider on Unsplash – A better route starts with a better question.

Who Will Own the Decision?

Picture a committee meeting.

Some people are sitting together in a conference room. Others are joining remotely. Some cameras are on, some are off. Microphones are muted. A few people are listening closely. Others are answering email, reading messages, or looking at whatever happens to be open on another screen.

A simple question comes before the group. It has little strategic importance. No customer will ever know what this group decides.

The committee simply needs to agree on how to handle a small part of a recurring process.

The discussion that follows is an amalgam drawn from years of committee meetings, planning sessions, governance discussions, and executive conversations. The details change, but the dynamics are remarkably consistent.

Someone introduces the question.

Someone else asks whether an existing procedure covers it.

A person lower in the organization looks around to see what a person higher in the organization thinks.

Nobody wants to get too far ahead of the room. People qualify their statements. Suggestions are floated as questions, offered softly enough to be withdrawn later.

The senior person tries to avoid dominating the conversation. They ask what others think. They may even be hoping someone on the team will step forward, offer a recommendation, and take ownership of the next step.

Some stay on mute as if they’re watching a livestream podcast.

Eventually, the opinion of the most senior person becomes clear, and the room begins moving toward agreement.

The decision is made.

Even then, it isn’t firm. We may change it at our next meeting.

When I’m in this type of meeting, I wonder what would happen if this same group had to make a decision that actually mattered. One that determined the future of their company.

This isn’t just a corporate thing. It’s a human thing.

Get a group of friends together and ask where they want to go for dinner.

Everyone says they’re flexible. One person suggests Mexican food. Someone else had Mexican food yesterday.

Another person suggests barbecue. Someone is trying to eat healthier, so that’s out. Italian sounds good, but the good Italian place will probably be crowded.

Someone says, “I really don’t care. Whatever everyone else wants.”

Of course, that person will usually care quite a bit once the choice has been made.

No one is willing to own the choice. They’d rather evaluate a decision someone else makes than be the one making it.

Organizations take this ordinary human tendency and surround it with hierarchy, titles, politics, performance reviews, and memories of what happened the last time someone took a risk.

Sometimes people hesitate because their organization conditioned them to hesitate. A manager tells people to take ownership, then second-guesses every choice they make. Work is delegated, but authority remains at the top.

After a while, the team learns the rules.

Don’t decide too quickly.

Sound out the boss first.

Find out what the boss’s boss thinks.

Ask for more information. Schedule another discussion.

Use words like alignment, validation, and further review.

Above all, avoid being the person whose fingerprints appear on a decision the senior leaders might dislike.

That explains a lot of the hesitation. But it doesn’t explain all of it.

Sometimes the authority is available. The decision boundaries are clear. The organization genuinely wants people to think, act, and lead.

People still hesitate.

Avoiding embarrassment becomes more important than the decision. Their recommendation might be challenged. Their strategy may fail. The plan they present might expose their incomplete thinking. They may be criticized.

It feels safer to ask another question or merely stay on mute.

Committees bring together experience, technical knowledge, and organizational perspective that one person might overlook. All of us are smarter than one of us, as the saying goes.

But shared deliberation can quietly become distributed ownership.

Everyone contributes a sentence. Nobody owns the paragraph.

If the outcome is good, the committee made a wise choice. If it goes badly, the decision belongs to the process, or to the group as a whole.

There’s an opportunity hidden within all this hesitation.

When a room is circling a decision, watching the hierarchy, qualifying every opinion, and searching for ways to avoid ownership, one clear voice can change the conversation.

That person doesn’t have to be the most senior person in the room. They don’t need to dominate the discussion or pretend uncertainty has disappeared.

They need to listen, understand what’s being debated, and separate the important concerns from the noise surrounding them.

Then they can say something like:

“Here’s what I’m hearing. Here’s the decision we’re trying to make. Here’s the path I recommend, and here’s why.”

That’s leadership.

The willingness to place a reasoned judgment before the group when everyone else is waiting to see where the room will go.

Your recommendation may be challenged. The group may improve it or choose another path. Either outcome moves the group forward. All of it was made possible by one small act of leadership.

Leadership helps people move from uncertainty toward clarity, and from discussion to action.

In rooms filled with capable and experienced people, ownership and leadership are often the scarce resources.

The next time a decision is dancing around the room, pay attention. What looks like a search for more information is usually a search for someone willing to accept ownership.

The group is waiting for someone to lead them.

That someone may be you.

Photo by Marc Wieland on Unsplash – This post has nothing to do with sailing, but I love this image. A clear view ahead begins with someone willing to take ownership, chart the course, and help others see the way forward.

The Stories Behind the Results

A few days ago, someone posted a results sheet from the November 1976 Baja 1000.

The page was filled with names I recognized. Many went on to become legends in off-road racing. But two names, in particular, caught my attention.

Lee Hamby and Denby Dailey.

Denby is my uncle, and Lee was his co-rider. Together, they finished fourth in the Open motorcycle class on a Yamaha…a TT 500.

The result is clean and simple.

Two names. A motorcycle. A finishing position.

Fifty years later, that’s what remains on the page.

But I know some of the stories behind that result.

The week of the race, torrential rains hit Baja. Ensenada flooded. At the time, race vehicles were placed in an impound area after tech inspection so teams couldn’t make further modifications before the start.

That year, the impound area flooded.

Riders and crews had to wade into the water, pull out their motorcycles, assess the damage, and get them running again. Before the race had even begun, they were already rescuing their equipment and solving problems they could never have anticipated.

And the flooded impound yard was only the beginning.

My parents were there as part of the support team for Denby and Lee. They spent the race trying to reach pit areas, carrying fuel and supplies, and trying to be ready when the motorcycle arrived.

Their stories were filled with floods, pouring rain, mud, washed-out roads, close calls, and long hours trying to move through Baja while the race continued around them.

I heard the stories many times growing up.

We traveled to Baja to support other races through the late 70s, 80s, 90s, and 00s. Every now and then, while driving one of those roads or waiting at a pit, a story from the ’76 race would come up.

One person would talk about the rain.

Someone else would remember pulling out that van that had flopped over on its side, blocking the only way in and out of a pit area.

Another would remember a river crossing, a mechanical problem, or a moment when it seemed unlikely that anyone would make it to the next pit.

That’s the thing about a race like the Baja 1000. There’s never just one story.

The racers are focused on the course in front of them. They’re watching the terrain, listening to the motorcycle, managing fatigue, and trying to complete their part of the race.

Meanwhile, the pit crew is living a completely different race.

They’re navigating highways and back roads, hauling tools and fuel, finding remote locations, improvising when plans fall apart, and trying to arrive before the racers.

The riders rarely know what the pit crew is going through. The pit crew rarely knows what’s happening to the riders.

Yet they’re all part of the same team, working toward the same goal.

Each person is carrying a different piece of the effort. Each is solving problems the others may never see. Each is building a collection of memories while remaining focused on their next task.

Only afterward does the full story begin to emerge.

The racers finish. The crew gathers. The urgency fades.

Someone finds a shower. The grime starts to wash away. Cuts and bruises are finally noticed. A meal appears. Many beverages are opened.

Then the stories begin.

Did you make it past that washed-out road before they closed it?

How did you get the bike running?

What happened at that river crossing?

You did what?

Only then can everyone begin to understand what the others endured. Only then can the team see the full depth of what they accomplished together.

And if they’re lucky, the racers may receive a trophy and a small check that hardly covers the cost of the fuel burned during the race.

The official result still looks simple. Fourth place.

It says nothing about the mud, the darkness, the fatigue, or the danger.

Nothing about the parents, spouses, friends, mechanics, and volunteers racing from one remote pit to another.

Nothing about the separate struggles that came together to produce that one clean line on a page.

Seeing that results sheet nearly fifty years later brought back more than a racing memory.

My parents have passed away. My Uncle Denby died last year. Lee is still with us, but I haven’t seen or spoken with him in more than a decade.

The people who lived that story are slowly disappearing.

But their story remains.

It remains in the photo Lee’s son, Scott, shared. Racers in their prime, doing what they loved and doing it well.

They couldn’t have known that half a century later, someone would look at those images alongside a yellowed results sheet and remember everything that page could never contain.

We spend much of our lives pursuing results that may someday look just as simple.

A name. A date. A title.

A finished project. A successful deal. A race result.

The record preserves the outcome, but it misses most of the story.

It leaves out the people carrying unseen burdens. The problems that were solved against all odds. The risks taken without fully realizing them. The exhaustion, improvisation, fear, laughter, camaraderie, and relief.

Fifty years later, the results fit neatly on a single page.

But oh, the stories they could tell.

That’s Uncle Denby at a water crossing, probably before sunrise. Notice the small headlight, maybe 8 inches of travel in the shocks, and a battery-powered headlamp on his helmet. I think that was powered by a big cube-shaped lantern battery in his backpack.